Biohack the Burnout: Why Gut Health & Extreme Self-Care Must Be Non-Negotiable in Divorce Recovery

Divorce doesn’t just break hearts—it can break bodies. And one of the most dangerous, most overlooked mistakes people make during the stress tsunami of separation is this:

They neglect their health.
Worse? They normalize the suffering.

Let’s be real. When your world is falling apart, when you’re sleeping next to a ghost or dodging emotional grenades, your nervous system is in full fight-or-flight mode. Coffee becomes a meal. Sleep? Optional. Movement? Forgotten. And slowly, silently, the invisible storm begins within…

🔥 Chronic inflammation.


What’s inflammation got to do with heartbreak?

Everything.

When you’re facing a high-conflict divorce, toxic ex, or even just the overwhelm of redefining your entire life, your body remembers. It internalizes the chaos. It responds as if it’s under siege—because it is.

You might think your gut is just about digestion. But 70% of your immune system lives there.
It’s your body’s emotional firewall—and when it weakens, the floodgates open to fatigue, brain fog, anxiety, joint pain, weight gain, depression, autoimmune issues, and more.


The Divorce-Gut Connection You Never Knew Existed

 

Stress triggers cortisol spikes. Cortisol spikes lead to leaky gut.
Leaky gut leads to systemic inflammation—and suddenly your mind, body, and soul are running on fumes.
And you wonder why you’re snapping at your kids, crying in parking lots, or spacing out in mediation sessions.

🧠 It’s not just emotional.
🦠 It’s physiological.
💣 And it’s solvable.


Enter: The Radical Act of Extreme Self-Care 🧘‍♀️

This isn’t a bubble bath and a glass of wine. This is hardcore healing. This is divorce biohacking.

➡️ Think gut-healing nourishment over numbing.
➡️ Think adrenal support over adrenaline addiction.
➡️ Think microbiome magic, not martinis.

One of my favorite tools in this healing arsenal?
ION Gut Support* – a breakthrough that doesn’t just mask symptoms; it fortifies the fortress.

While probiotics try to reseed your gut, ION repairs the gut lining itself*—tightening the seals that keep toxins, chemicals, and chaos out of your bloodstream. Especially glyphosate, the sneaky gut saboteur found in conventional foods.

This isn’t fluff.
It’s science.
It’s strategy.
It’s survival.


You Can’t Heal a Broken Heart in a Broken Body 💥

As I tell every client in my Better Divorce Blueprint course:

“If your body is inflamed, your brain can’t think clearly, your heart can’t feel safely, and your spirit can’t rise.”

That means decisions about custody, finances, freedom, your future—all of it—are compromised if you’re operating in a state of chronic inflammation.

Your health is the foundation.
Not an afterthought.
Not a luxury.
Not something you’ll “get back to later.”


💡 Ready to Stop Burning the Candle at Both Ends?

Start biohacking your way back to sanity, sovereignty, and stamina.

🧬 Here’s what to do next:

✅ Download my free “Divorce Survival Kit: 12 Must-Know Moves Before You Lawyer Up”
This guide includes my top daily practices, gut-healing protocols, and mindset shifts to protect your peace—and your health—right now.
👉 Click here to get your copy.

✅ Listen to the Better Divorce Podcast
Tune in for episodes on functional medicine, trauma-informed care, and radical self-repair during divorce.
🎧 Subscribe now.

✅ Explore the Better Divorce Blueprint Course
A holistic, high-touch program that guides you through every phase of your divorce—emotionally, legally, financially, physically, and spiritually.
💫 Start your journey here.

Your healing is not a side quest.
It is the mission.
And you, my love, are the commander of this comeback.

✨Inhale peace.
🔥Exhale inflammation.
👑 Take your power back.

With love and fire,
Paulette

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I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial  and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

I personally endured an 8.5 year fully litigated case that included a 12 day trial that took place over 9 months and after all that living hell…(please excuse my french)

there was a FOUR year state supreme appellate court process.

It cost a TON of money, years of my life tied up in court and it nearly destroyed me and my family.

the funny thing during this time I could barely help myself but time and time again other’s reached out to ME for help..

I called my attorney Marty (gutta remember I was born in Boston)

and told him what happening.

I asked him if I should go to law school…
he smiled and said you know Paulette you think like a judge act like a lawyer and feel like a therapist you owe it to give back and help people you my dear have experienced what 99% of people never will… that experience gives you the depth and the breath of the entire divorce process

Full Circle

my personal experience gave me the awareness, skills and strength to help countless others facing mediation, divorce, antagonistic litigation and ever-changing family dynamics.

It drove me to do a tremendous amount of education, training, internship, mentoring and certification and create Better Divorce Academy, author the #1 best selling book, workbook, and the 8-module self-paced course: Better Divorce Blueprint and host The Better Divorce Podcast.

With my team of experts, we blend private mediation with Certified Divorce Coaching to help you stay in control, make wise decisions, and maintain your dignity.

I’m here to transform divorce and create an optimal experience for YOU.

The one I didn’t have 😟

but you can.