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"From my first engagement by phone, Paulette was soooo comforting even before she knew about me or my issue/separation. She reached out to me just about every other day checking on me until we met with her financial expert and transactional attorney.
She walked me through a huge trial in my life after 10 years of marriage and now a separation with 2 young children.
I was able to work with her and her firm along with my husband to come to a peaceful uncontested divorce. She made it so comforting and I would recommend her to anyone going through this crisis.
I am in hope and know that no matter the out come Paulette will be there for me to make my life and children's life for the better!
Dawn R. 
"Working with Paulette has given me reassurance that my dreams are possible. She's been a guiding light to help me access life goals from my heart, and those specific goals took away my stress and was replaced with confidence, excitement and drive.
The pieces and people in my life seemed to fall into place as I showed up for each day with my intention. Paulette is patient and thorough in her approach and sees you as the complete individual that you are. She will help you surprise yourself. Creating this clear picture simplifies and energizes my desires to live my best life."
Bridget N.
"Paulette Rigo is a superstar. She acted as my friend, advisor, and ally during a tumultuous and emotional time following a devastating relationship break-up. The resources she provided gave me a vocabulary to understand my experiences, while her coaching and guidance was invaluable in my healing. She helped me gain a deeper connection to myself. Paulette is a loving, kind, and empathetic spirit. I would highly recommend working with her in times of confusion, overwhelm and fear!"
Lindsey B
“Working with Paulette through my divorce I felt anything was possible. Her gift is helping one create solutions and, ones purpose, as well as identifying obstacles we create for ourselves. She is wise and deep yet fun and enjoyable to work with. You can be assured you will have very clear stepping stones to walk with Paulette by your side, as you make your dreams and new life ahead full of attainable goals”
Beth M.
"I consider it a blessing to have found Paulette. I was/is in a high conflict, covert narcissistic relationship with many children, where I am the bread winner and decided to finally end my marriage of 20 years. I had only recently come to the realization I had been experiencing emotional abuse and therefore I knew I was susceptible to ‘falling for’ his previous tactics to keep me entwined and remain in a marriage with a depressing future. I met Paulette and instantly knew we’d clicked. She was welcoming, accepting and open. She listened to me explain my story and was able to read in between the lines to help me reach my goal. A happier life."
Samantha G.
"Paulette and her own unique area of service helped me develop an inner strength and self trust to walk confidently through my challenges. She guided me through a process that healed my limited view and renewed my truth."
Michelle G.
Contrary to popular perception, 80% of women initiate divorce, there are men who make up the other 20% and could benefit from the work that Paulette does. I went through an emotionally painful and financially costly divorce. In retrospect I wish I had access to the type of information and resources Paulette brings to her clients.
Joseph C.
Paulette comes into your life with light at diving timing. I’ve seen her do it for multiple people. For myself, she showed up when I was in a toxic relationship and settling for a life that wasn’t right for me. I randomly met Paulette in Belize at an aerial yoga class and we instantly became family. Paulette’s way of relating to others, listening and life experience make her genuinely a natural healer. Paulette will challenge you to live the life that makes you happy, help you step into your power, and ultimately force you to your dharma - your life path. If you have the chance to work with Paulette - do it! I am forever grateful for this beautiful human. Thank you and I love watching you heal the people that you come in encounter with.
Anna P.
I met Paulette by chance. I did not know of her, I didn't seek her out, no one referred me. It is true that I was going through a very rough patch in my life and I was looking for support and for tools to help me. As such, my belief that everything happens for a reason and you are always exactly where you need to be were substantiated when I met Paulette “by chance.” She simply walked up to me and introduced herself. Working with Paulette was a really good choice for me to make. I was somewhat intimidated because it was all new to me, but Paulette takes you in and includes you and gets you to your work so that you are not distracted by your own limitations. She brings you to yourself. She is warm, bright, and kind but she is also all about achieving success, for herself and for you.
Greer P.
Paulette can communicate with all types and backgrounds. Your interpersonal skills and communication are exceptional. You are truly inspirational. I immediately saw something authentic in you...and then we talked and I knew. You are inspiring and beautiful. I could never have gotten through this without you.
Kim M.
Your guidance has been invaluable to me and has truly changed my life. I mean that sincerely. I am so grateful to have you for a coach, I feel like a sponge when I am around you. Whenever you speak, I learn something new! I’ve learned so very much. One thing I learned is to stop beating myself up about my weight, it will change, slowly but it will change. I used to say to myself and to others “I am exactly where I am supposed to be and I wouldn’t change any of my past experiences because they made me who I am”, and I meant it but still the weight thing was a little niggling burden telling me I was not being honest. Now I believe it fully.
Debbie L.
Paulette has a unique background as a yoga teacher, healer, dancer and entrepreneur. She endured a challenging divorce and has now turned that experience into helping others going through a divorce. She is launching her book and coaching business and can help you navigate the emotional turmoil of divorce and find your true self.
Maureen S.
Paulette is an expert in her field and is one of the most knowledgeable, kind and compassionate people out there. She has the gift of putting people at ease with her genuine interest and understanding. She has helped me personally immensely. My highest coaching recommendation.
Pamela P.
What I really want to say to you is that I think Paulette has really found her calling. With a voice so sincere, she’s a guiding light to so many women. You are star bright and strong - the over used cliche of a lighthouse comes to mind. I truly applaud the work you are doing and am grateful that your important work exists.
Maria S.
When faced with an unimaginable marriage situation, Paulette guided me through each step smoothly to make me feel more grounded. She affirmed my racing thoughts and emotions, which helped me feel more focused and calm. She provided me with the information to allow me to work through the situation, make decisions on my own, and feel in control. Her knowledge and wisdom allowed me to feel secure and confident in my decision-making. Overall, she made an extremely overwhelming situation more manageable and helped me every step of the way.
Jennifer P.
Working with Paulette has been such a gift in my life. She has such depth of knowledge and insight to see what is going on in your heart and mind and helps you become aware of it and shines a light on it so you can see it too. You genuinely feel she cares about you and your transformation as she guides you through each step of the process. She is such a joy to work with and I can’t image going through any life change without her expertise, support and abilities.
Tami J.
I’m so grateful to you, Paulette, for your support and coaching. You’ve shown such generosity of spirit. I can’t thank you enough for meeting me where I am and expanding my vision. You’ve reminded me not only to persist in my work, but to dream big—to open myself to the possibilities and understand that I have the power to bring what I love to life. Paulette, you’ve shown me what true women are and what they do: they share and lift each other up. Your presence in my life has shifted my perspective and reminded me that I’ll be graced with the love, kindness, and support of many women and men along the way who will generously share their spirits. I don’t have to create alone, but in connection and joy.
Ashley A.
I just want to tell you, I feel relieved and more excited about this whole process already. Thank you so much Paulette. You are definitely an angel brought into my life at an important time for me. I can never thank you enough.
Siobhan S.
Paulette’s brings years of experience along with compassion and insight into the divorce process. She does a remarkable job helping clients gain insight and clarity as to whether divorce is right for them and then the best way to proceed.
Tanya J.
Thank you Paulette Gloria Rigo for your guidance and support during this arduous journey of transitioning from one season in life to another. Change never comes easily but having you there to help me navigate through the storm has made all the difference in the world to me. I appreciate you and I greatly value our time spent together working through what can only be described as an evolution from tears, chaos, and pain to joy, peace and fulfillment! I’m a work in progress to be sure but to once again see there is light at the end of this darkness inspires me to march forward with resilience knowing I alone am the keeper of the pen and the author of my story.
Katrina A.
Paulette has been the voice of reason during a difficult process. I can't imagine navigating this without her!
Aaron K.
Paulette is an exceptionally gifted communicator who always comes from the center of love and compassion. Her deep knowledge of people’s minds and hearts are amazing. She is a deeply knowledgeable professional who can lift and guide you as you travel through the difficult path through divorce. I highly recommend her.
Patricia D.
Paulette is a wise, inspired professional who has merged a wealth of knowledge and skills to create a unique, and much-needed service. What a bright light for a difficult journey!
Denise A.
I met Paulette at an event and remembered her because I imagined that she'd probably helped so many women. I never thought I would need to reach out to her, but after a series of very difficult and emotionally charged fights with my husband, I found myself needing counsel. Paulette engaged with me in a compassionate, caring, and incredibly professional way, offering me tactical next steps and advice. Paulette is someone you want in your corner, no matter what decisions you end up making regarding your marriage. Thank you, Paulette!
Mary U.
Paulette is an amazing woman who brings solace and light to those around her through her insight, wisdom and tried and true measures.
Elizabeth W.
Thank you Paulette Gloria Harwood for coaching me from ground ZERO and your endless dedication and support during my journey. I am what you taught me. I took every step you guided me to with all my heart. You pointed to the bright window and I just jumped with open arms and my eyes closed. I trusted the process because you are real. I found my inner peace. I found that happiness is an inside job and not in somebody else's pocket. I'm grounded and I speak for myself. I am true. I love each part of my journey and I'm forever grateful. Thanks to you and your fabulous team. My forever coach and mentor.
Anna J.
Paulette really cares & listens to where you are in the process. It’s like she imagines herself in your place & guides you step by step with the wisdom she has from her own experience.
Sandra P.
Paulette is a powerful resource when going through a divorce. She has been through this herself and knows how to help you focus while dealing with the pain and confusion of one of the most traumatic events of your life. If you want someone you can trust, who will stop everything and focus on helping you, then have no fear and reach out to her. You won’t be sorry you did.
Dawn S.
Paulette really cares & listens to where you are in the process. It’s like she imagines herself in your place & guides you step by step with the wisdom she has from her own experience.
Danielle M.
Wanted to say thank you again for your guidance and for developing such wonderful transformative coaching. I took the first step, but you provided the tools and so many amazing things are happening from that. So thank you.
Angela C
Paulette is extremely knowledgeable and truly inspiring!
Deb S.
I am truly grateful to Paulette for expertly guiding me to transform my life and to reach for my dreams and joys. I'm so glad I stayed the course even during my personal times of stress, which Paulette helped me to greatly overcome! When the client is ready the coach will appear and I am so grateful for all of her commitment to ensuring my success!
Sandy A.
When I think of the time in my life before I met Paulette, it seems like it was in a different lifetime. Paulette's coaching, along with her encouragement has changed my life in such a wonderful way that I cannot even imagine what it would be like to have it any other way. Paulette has been a huge inspiration to me along this very difficult and long road. Not only is she one of the most knowledgeable people I know, she manages to dedicate herself to different things in her life while being kind and devoted to her clients. Paulette is one of the nicest, most loving people I've ever met, and she has inspired me to go live my life to its fullest potential and rise above turmoil. I am eternally grateful that I met Paulette. I truly don't know what life would be like without Paulette. I highly recommend her as a coach, leader and mentor Her Thank you Paulette!
Laura S.
Paulette approached everything she does with a cheerful, positive outlook. She's always a breath of fresh air. She's responsible and organized and puts all she has into her work. She's also very bright and educated, and ethically choosy about what work and what companies she represents.
Sarah B.
Working with Paulette through my divorce I felt anything was possible. Her gift is helping one create solutions and one's purpose, as well as identifying obstacles we create for ourselves. She is wise and deep yet fun and enjoyable to work with. You can be assured you will have very clear stepping stones to walk with Paulette by your side, as you make your dreams and new life ahead full of attainable goals.
Beth M.
Before I started this incredible journey with Paulette, I was not aware of all that I was capable of. I was unaware of my self-worth and true meaning of self-love…She has taught me things I didn't even know existed, and because of that I now live a more fulfilling and happy life…My journey inward and to the heart has been the most incredible thing to happen to me, and she has given me all the tools and knowledge necessary to be able to share this passion and enlightenment with others.
Joniece S.
Paulette has been a patient and compassionate guide on my path to living a more fulfilling life. She has a spirit that radiates warmth and light. I feel like I learned much more than I ever thought I would. Paulette, through her own very unique art of service, helped me develop an inner strength and self trust to walk confidently through outer challenges. She saw me through my limitations, guided me through a process that healed my limited view and renewed my self worth and truth.
Michelle R.
The moment I met Paulette, the spiritual journey began, and I began to heal. Her work goes far beyond learning, it teaches you to become authentic and helps you discover the root of your fears. I have transformed in the last 6 months…The void in my soul is now filled with self love...Paulette shared the tools and lifestyle I needed to heal…The education she has provided has given new meaning and direction to my life; my new path is emerging and it is because of the support and guidance I have gotten from her work. Paulette is always available and the education is eternal.
Sylvie M.
I remember being nervous about attending my first session with Paulette. I had never experienced one-on-one coaching sessions, and I am pretty new to coaching so I had no idea what to expect. Paulette, however, laid down all my anxious thoughts and nervous energies to rest from the first time I saw her. She greeted me with a huge hug and her welcoming, warm, and calming presence immediately spread throughout me. And that was to be the tone for our future sessions. She created and provided me with a space filled with ease, warmth, patience, understanding, encouragement and non-judgement. This allowed for me to get comfortable enough to dig deep and to search within myself for the answers I was looking for. After our sessions, I felt more empowered, with more direction of what I wanted and needed to do for myself.
Emie J.
When I think of the time in my life before I met Paulette, it seems like it was a different lifetime. Paulette's teaching, along with her encouragement, transformed my life in such a way that I can't imagine where I would be today without her.
Laura W.
I have been touched by the generosity of Paulette’s willingness to share and the depth at which she genuinely cares. She has been an inspiration, a mentor, and a friend. She taught us to be authentic, inspired and to realize our unlimited potential. My life has been made so much richer by the love and guidance she has so unselfishly given…On a Richter Scale, I would have to say her work has been a 10 plus!
Sue R.
Paulette has guided me into a direction I never thought was possible. Positive energy, self-confidence, and achievable success brought on through knowledge and faith. Truly grateful for meeting her and can't believe how much has changed…I'm all around a more grounded, aware, and intuitive woman, and I appreciate Paulette for believing in me.
Vanessa O.
Paulette is a great coach and has an exceptional coaching program! A Life changing opportunity!
Beatrice W.
My daughter gifted me a cooking class with Paulette when she was still in Massachusetts. It was life changing. I have always been a health focused person, but I had no idea of the depth and breadth of learning ahead! Paulette's class changed me forever and has given me a new road of life. I cannot say enough good things about spending time with her! Love your body, mind, and soul and gift yourself with wellness: work with her and go see her!
Olivia L.
Paulette... was an absolute dream to work with. She truly is there to help guide you through every step of your journey to becoming your best self. I thoroughly enjoyed the time I spent with her and learned so much from her I don’t even know where to start. Extremely knowledgeable, kind, supportive, loving, caring, and elegant are just a few of the words I would use to describe her. She’s just a true gem!
Lisa M.
I met Paulette at an event and remembered her because I imagined that she'd probably helped so many women. I never thought I would need to reach out to her, but after a series of very difficult and emotionally charged fights with my husband, I found myself needing counsel. Paulette engaged with me in a compassionate, caring, and incredibly professional way, offering me tactical next steps and advice. Paulette is someone you want in your corner, no matter what decisions you end up making regarding your marriage. Thank you, Paulette!
Jane D.
Paulette you fell into my arms and it was more than just a coincidence, I needed help in every way and you guided me in helping myself. When I couldn’t comprehend up from down and was left breathless, you helped me to remember my priorities and the reason that I reached out to you, because I deserve better. You provided me educated options and allowed the time I needed to make my own logical decisions. It was the first time in a long time that I didn’t feel alone, I had someone to reach out to 24/7.
Katrina D.
Reevaluating life almost happens subconsciously. You wake up with a little angel on your shoulders saying you deserve to be happy! You should not be crying for what seems to be no reason. You look at everything with fresh eyes and say now it’s my turn, on my terms. And if you are lucky enough to have a best friend, and her name is Paulette, you can smile and have it all.
Jennifer M.
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