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A unique divorce support service offering divorce mediation, mediation services, and personalized divorce coaching to help clients navigate their journey with ease. Our strategic approach to mediation divorce ensures you
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You’re staring down the unknown—paralyzed, panicked, and asking yourself:

“Where do I even begin?”

Maybe you’ve been living in silent suffering for years.

Maybe the decision was made for you.

Or maybe you’ve finally whispered the words you never thought you’d say:

“I want a divorce.”

But now…

You’re terrified.

  • Of saying the wrong thing.
  • Of blowing it financially.
  • Of messing up the kids.
  • Of being dragged through the court system and left emotionally and financially gutted.
  • Of wasting years of your life just trying to survive something you never asked for.

But have no fear—You’ve found the answer.

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Welcome to Better Divorce Academy

Meet Paulette ✳

Certified Divorce Coach, Private Divorce Mediator and your personal divorce BFF.

Paulette Rigo, the CEO and Founder of Better Divorce Academy, brings a new way to handle divorce mediation. She helps people through the process with care and skill.

Paulette is a divorce coach and a trained ADR Mediator. She has special certifications to help with tough divorce situations.

Her book, “Better Divorce Blueprint,” is a #1 best-seller. This book and her other mediation divorce resources change how people see divorce. Her services guide clients to make better decisions for their future.

I help clients avoid court, save all unnecessary legal fees and swiftly divorce while keeping their private life private and staying in control of their future.

Paulette Rigo
 
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I help smart people take back control of a situation they didn’t ask for—but refuse to be broken by.

* Whether you’re just starting to consider divorce…

*Already knee-deep in legal chaos…

* Or crawling your way out of the rubble…

We’ve got you.

My clients are powerful, heart-centered people just like you:
Burnt out from playing therapist, accountant, investigator, and lawyer.

Grieving a life that’s crumbling.
But ready to rise from the ashes—with a clear path forward.

I help clients avoid court, save all unnecessary legal fees and swiftly divorce while keeping their private life private and staying in control of their future.

Paulette Rigo

Divorce Mediation

Better Divorce Academy offers a divorce mediation service to help people solve problems without going to court. It helps clients set clear goals and make fair decisions together. The mediation for divorce service supports clients in creating a future they want and deserve.

1:1 Divorce Coaching

Better Divorce Academy provides a divorce coach to help people through difficult divorces and big life changes. The coaching for divorce service supports clients step by step until they feel strong and ready to move forward. This divorce coaching helps them rebuild their lives.

ADR Mediation

Better Divorce Academy offers ADR mediation to help people resolve conflicts in a peaceful way. The mediation service guides both sides to find fair solutions without going to court. This makes the process easier and less stressful.

You want solutions. You need a Blueprint.

At Better Divorce Academy, we give you the tools, guidance, and strategy to:

  • Get educated (no more guessing)
  • Feel deeply seen, heard, and supported
  • Save thousands in unnecessary legal fees
  • Avoid drawn-out, soul-crushing court battles
  • Prevent irreversible mistakes
  • Keep your private life private
  • Reclaim your time, peace, and sanity
  • Protect your children from the fallout
  • Safeguard your financial future
  • Step boldly into your next chapter—with grace
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Our Divorce Services

Divorce Mediation

Better Divorce Academy offers a divorce mediation service to help people solve problems without going to court. It helps clients set clear goals and make fair decisions together. The mediation for divorce service supports clients in creating a future they want and deserve.
Divorce Mediation

1:1 Divorce Coaching

Better Divorce Academy provides a divorce coach to help people through difficult divorces and big life changes. The coaching for divorce service supports clients step by step until they feel strong and ready to move forward. This divorce coaching helps them rebuild their lives.
Divorce Coaching Services

ADR Mediation

Better Divorce Academy offers ADR mediation to help people resolve conflicts in a peaceful way. The mediation service guides both sides to find fair solutions without going to court. This makes the process easier and less stressful.

ADR Mediation Services
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The 3 Pillars for Divorce Success

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Gain insights from experienced divorce mediators and professionals, empowering you to make informed decisions.

Get clear on the experience & outcome

Transformative Mediation

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Discover the power of mediation, fostering communication and leading to positive outcomes.
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Transformative Mediation

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Discover the power of mediation, fostering communication and leading to positive outcomes.
You are not Alone!

Master your divorce preparation

Practical Strategies

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Streamline the process with practical strategies for efficient, cost-effective, and emotionally smoother divorce.

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Practical Strategies

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Streamline the process with practical strategies for efficient, cost-effective, and emotionally smoother divorce.

Stand out with your strategy

You can do this.
You just don’t have to do it alone.

👑 We don’t do cookie-cutter advice.
👑 We don’t let courts or attorneys hijack your future.
👑 And we sure as hell don’t sugar-coat reality—because you deserve the truth AND a way through.

This isn’t just a divorce.

It’s your life.

Let’s build it back—better.

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We got this—together.

Hear out what our clients say about us.

Brittany
Paulette is truly an expert in her field! When I found myself struggling to navigate the complexities of my divorce, she stepped in and helped me tie all the loose ends together. Her guidance not only gave me clarity but also the confidence I needed to take the next steps. Throughout our collaboration, her extensive knowledge of the industry proved indispensable in streamlining the process and fostering a smooth, stress-free experience. Theres no doubt in choosing the Better Divorce Academy!
Brittany N Lauren
Racheal
Paulette's a game-changer in divorce litigation. With her guidance, you'll know what to do and she genuinely has YOUR best interests at heart, unlike others. No regrets hiring her.
Rachel Johnson
Dan
I can't thank Paulette enough for her invaluable support during a time when my marriage was hanging by a thread. Her deep knowledge, unwavering support, and flexibility were a lifeline that prevented me from taking the drastic step of divorce. In just two conversations, she provided clarity on my options and helped me find a path forward. Her warmth and empathy felt like a ray of sunshine in my darkest moments. Paulette is a remarkable professional and a genuine blessing. I wholeheartedly recommend her to anyone facing relationship challenges or contemplating divorce. Her guidance was instrumental in helping me navigate a difficult chapter in my life.
Ribeka Cruz
virginia
Paulette was amazing to work with. Her knowledge and empathy made the divorce and mediation process go so much more smoothly than I anticipated. She also has great contacts, so you can be confident you'll be covered no matter what. I highly recommend working with her!
Virginia Collins
susan
I’m not sure anyone who has been through one would say they had a ‘good’ divorce. It seems to me an oxymoron, kind of like a ‘good’ death. But, as both an attorney and someone who has experienced divorce in multiple ways on a personal and professional level, I can attest to the fact that there definitely ways to have a ‘better’ divorce, and Paulette can absolutely help you find them. She is a powerhouse of knowledge in this arena and is an amazing asset to those struggling through the life-changing upheaval that comes with the process of ending your marriage. Her amazing skill set is unique, creative, and the best way I can think of to come to the other side of divorce as a more whole person. I highly recommend her and her process!
Susan Baudhuin
Julieta
Paulette was there during the initial stages of divorce. She helped me pinpoint what was important to me and guided me through the very anxiety provoking process. So thankful to have her expertise and also her listening ear.
Julieta Valenzona
Jan Leasure..
If you are even thinking about separation I would highly recommend that you reach out to Paulette at the @Better Divorce Academy. Her experience, skills & empathy are unparalleled. She has some unique & creative methods of helping you find the positivity in your next chapter!
Jan Leasure
Meagan
Paulette was a great guide through my separation and divorce. She always was there to answer my questions, and helped us through mediation. Divorce may suck, bit she helped make the process less painful. Definitely recommend using her services!
Meagan Luschen
Ashley Parker
Paulette is an absolute Godsend! She made my divorce go so much quicker! Very professional and caring! I couldn’t recommend her enough!
Ashley Parker
Darlene
Paulette has the compassion and experience to assist you through one of most difficult events of life: a divorce!
Darlene Bradlee
Janie
Very prompt at responding to messages & providing information on services available.
Jeanie Akridge
Amy Howard
I had the opportunity to get acquainted with Paulette. She is energetic and very invested in her work and the people she helps.
Amy Howard

Here’s our data-driven, divorce success-based 3-step system:

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BDA Does Divorce Differently and Better

Ready To Talk?
Stick to the data.
Then, we add your unique personality and honest voice:

We include your real story and ideas that you may have set aside.

We’ll combine them with proven divorce frameworks like the BLUEPRINT BDA Formula.
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Stack in your goals.
Clearing the clutter by focusing on the facts.

Find out what your goals really mean using the marriage timeline method in Better Divorce Blueprint.

We use data-driven decisions to guide you through every emotion along the way.
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Add leverage.
Finally, we’ll perfect your strategy and bring together the right team to ensure your success.

Divorce coaching helps, but we also focus on your money and future. Get ready to take action that builds a strong financial plan.

You’ll want to celebrate when your vision becomes clear.
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Considering Divorce

Your're Probably Wondering:

  • Will leaving my toxic spouse result in a antagonistic divorce?
  • Do I need a LAWYER to get a divorce?
  • How can I avoid dropping a ton of cash on legal fees?
  • Can I afford to KEEP THE HOUSE after the divorce papers are signed?
  • What is DIVORCE MEDIATION? How long does divorce mediation take? Is it expensive?
  • Can my marriage be saved? Is amicable divorce possible?
  • How will I and my children ever get through this?
  • I’ve been married for decades and I’m scared to be alone—

Will I ever be happy again?

Roadblocks? Navigated.
Obstacles? Overcome.
Happiness? That’s up next.

BDA is a divorce coaching business and divorce resource center—

We help at any stage of your divorce.

We focus on people in

  • long-term,
  • high-asset,
  • difficult marriages that are heading toward divorce.

We have supported and coached hundreds of clients through this process.

Thinking of Divorce but Not Sure Where to Start?​

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Dreaming of A better future is YOUR right
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We excel at the intersection of credentials and compassion, leveraging professional expertise and knowledge to find savvy, success-based solutions and a supportive, step-by-step journey through divorce and back.

BDA works from a place of preparation instead of blind trust in the system.

It’s simple: We’ll help you make BETTER and WISER decisions with YOUR Blueprint, so you can lean into creating your new life and legacy.

Throw your hands up and say “Hell, yeah!” or just put on your dancing shoes and pour a glass of Sangiovese—mind pouring me one too, while you’re at it?’

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Gain the wisdom you need with cutting-edge coaching services designed for those seeking results!

Think of this assessment/consultation like you are taking your marriage to the doctor. This is your chance to get my eyeballs on your situation and tell you exactly what is not functioning, know what all your options are and the best next steps to know if divorce is best for you and your family.

You will learn the 5 methods of divorce and the 4 things the court cares about and be sure all your questions are answered.

30-Minutes Preparation and Planning Assessment

  • Our unbeatable $75 preparation and planning assessment, taking just 30 minutes, will lay the foundation for your success in knowing your best options.

Up to 90 Minutes Coaching Consultation

  • Elevate your progress with our exclusive one-on-one divorce coaching and private mediation consultation, spanning 60 to 90 minutes, at only $299.

Our team of expert coaches specializes in understanding your needs and analyzing your situation.

Let’s explore your goals, overcome challenges, and create a personalized roadmap to successfully divorce.

Invest in yourself and experience unparalleled support and expertise.

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I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial  and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

I personally endured an 8.5 year fully litigated case that included a 12 day trial that took place over 9 months and after all that living hell…(please excuse my french)

there was a FOUR year state supreme appellate court process.

It cost a TON of money, years of my life tied up in court and it nearly destroyed me and my family.

the funny thing during this time I could barely help myself but time and time again other’s reached out to ME for help..

I called my attorney Marty (gutta remember I was born in Boston)

and told him what happening.

I asked him if I should go to law school…
he smiled and said you know Paulette you think like a judge act like a lawyer and feel like a therapist you owe it to give back and help people you my dear have experienced what 99% of people never will… that experience gives you the depth and the breath of the entire divorce process

Full Circle

my personal experience gave me the awareness, skills and strength to help countless others facing mediation, divorce, antagonistic litigation and ever-changing family dynamics.

It drove me to do a tremendous amount of education, training, internship, mentoring and certification and create Better Divorce Academy, author the #1 best selling book, workbook, and the 8-module self-paced course: Better Divorce Blueprint and host The Better Divorce Podcast.

With my team of experts, we blend private mediation with Certified Divorce Coaching to help you stay in control, make wise decisions, and maintain your dignity.

I’m here to transform divorce and create an optimal experience for YOU.

The one I didn’t have 😟

but you can.