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Your New Divorce Coach, Divorce Mediator and Amicable Divorce Pro

I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

Not knowing what to think, what to ask, or how to organize the emotional and practical pieces of divorce can make an already difficult season feel even heavier.

Feeling uncertain, overwhelmed, or unprepared should not keep you from seeking the support and information you need to move forward with more dignity, clarity, and steadiness.

Staying uninformed is not the goal. With the right preparation, you can become more organized, ask better questions, and participate more confidently in conversations with your attorney and other qualified professionals.

That’s where I come in — ponytail on, laptop open, and ready to help you bring structure, compassion, and a little calm to the chaos.

"It’s been a winding road. I left the dance, yoga, and birthing world behind to start my own business when I saw divorce’s devastating effects on families, couples, and children — and you know it isn’t pretty."
- Paulette Rigo

High Asset Divorce Coaching and Mediation the BDA way

I wear TWO hats in the divorce world.

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BDA Does Divorce Differently and Better

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I serve as a Credentialed ADR Family Mediator for couples who want to explore a more private, cooperative, and less adversarial divorce process when appropriate.

As a neutral mediator, I facilitate structured conversations between the parties so they can discuss priorities, concerns, and possible areas of agreement in a respectful setting.

No one is treated as the “winner” or “loser” in the mediation room. The goal is to support communication, reduce unnecessary conflict where possible, and help the parties document the understandings they may reach.

Any mediation summary or memorandum should be reviewed by each party’s independent legal counsel before it is signed or used in any legal proceeding. If the parties choose to move forward, qualified legal professionals can prepare and file any required legal documents.

Mediation works best when both parties are willing to participate in good faith — because it takes two people to create a cooperative resolution.
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I serve as a Certified Divorce Coach for individuals who want one-on-one support during a divorce-related transition.

In this role, I work with one party at a time, helping them organize their thoughts, clarify their concerns, prepare for difficult conversations, and feel less alone as they move through the process.

My coaching support can begin in the early stages of contemplating divorce and continue during or after the process, depending on the client’s needs.

I always say, “I cannot do the divorce for you — and I do not provide legal advice — but I can walk beside you with structure, compassion, and steady support.”

My role is not to replace your attorney, financial professional, tax advisor, or therapist. My role is to help you feel more grounded, informed, and prepared as you navigate this transition.
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We're dedicated to making divorce a better experience for everyone involved.

Explore Your Options With Clarity and Support

Over the years, my boutique academy has supported clients from many backgrounds, including business owners, professionals, and individuals navigating complex personal and financial circumstances. Many were looking for a more compassionate, structured, and private form of divorce support.

We’ve even worked with a couple that was married for just 6 months with a baby on the way.

We regularly work with thoughtful married and divorcing couples who are ready to clarify their priorities, reduce unnecessary conflict where possible, and move through divorce-related conversations with more confidence and support.

My team’s guiding philosophy is simple:

It is about preparation, clarity, and that grounded feeling of, “I have support, I understand what to ask, and I can take this one step at a time.”

When appropriate, mediation may offer a more private and less adversarial setting, while clients are encouraged to consult qualified legal, financial, and tax professionals before making final decisions.

Our Approach to Divorce Mediation and Coaching
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We Spread the Love and Accessibility
We don’t keep success secrets or formulas to ourselves.

Instead, we have at least 1 free training, blog or tutorial for every topic we’re asked about and give our clients unlimited access and communication

—don’t worry, we get our beauty sleep.

We Help You Use Professional Support More Thoughtfully
We believe clients benefit from being informed, organized, and prepared before making major divorce-related decisions. In many situations, consulting a family law attorney or other qualified professional is important. Our role is to help you clarify your concerns, organize your questions, and approach those conversations with more confidence.
And Then We Spread More Love
We believe divorce coaching can help clients approach difficult conversations with more calm, clarity, and preparation.

Our team is committed to helping people who are contemplating divorce feel more informed, supported, and prepared.

More About Paulette, Your New Divorce BFF

I live outside of Atlanta with my beloved husband and our Chiweenie Lulu who can’t stand Amazon deliveries. Baking butterscotch cookies is my fave… but I’d put down a cookie stat to work with someone like YOU.

So, what do you say we pop some kombucha and get the good stories out— starting with yours?

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I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial  and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

I personally endured an 8.5 year fully litigated case that included a 12 day trial that took place over 9 months and after all that living hell…(please excuse my french)

there was a FOUR year state supreme appellate court process.

It cost a TON of money, years of my life tied up in court and it nearly destroyed me and my family.

the funny thing during this time I could barely help myself but time and time again other’s reached out to ME for help..

I called my attorney Marty (gutta remember I was born in Boston)

and told him what happening.

I asked him if I should go to law school…
he smiled and said you know Paulette you think like a judge act like a lawyer and feel like a therapist you owe it to give back and help people you my dear have experienced what 99% of people never will… that experience gives you the depth and the breath of the entire divorce process

Full Circle

my personal experience gave me the awareness, skills and strength to help countless others facing mediation, divorce, antagonistic litigation and ever-changing family dynamics.

It drove me to do a tremendous amount of education, training, internship, mentoring and certification and create Better Divorce Academy, author the #1 best selling book, workbook, and the 8-module self-paced course: Better Divorce Blueprint and host The Better Divorce Podcast.

With my team of experts, we blend private mediation with Certified Divorce Coaching to help you stay in control, make wise decisions, and maintain your dignity.

I’m here to transform divorce and create an optimal experience for YOU.

The one I didn’t have 😟

but you can.

Gain the wisdom you need with cutting-edge coaching services designed for those seeking results!

Think of this assessment/consultation like you are taking your marriage to the doctor. This is your chance to get my eyeballs on your situation and tell you exactly what is not functioning, know what all your options are and the best next steps to know if divorce is best for you and your family.

You will learn the 5 methods of divorce and the 4 things the court cares about and be sure all your questions are answered.

30-Minutes Preparation and Planning Assessment

  • Our unbeatable $75 preparation and planning assessment, taking just 30 minutes, will lay the foundation for your success in knowing your best options.

Up to 90 Minutes Coaching Consultation

  • Elevate your progress with our exclusive one-on-one divorce coaching and private mediation consultation, spanning 60 to 90 minutes, at only $299.

Our team of expert coaches specializes in understanding your needs and analyzing your situation.

Let’s explore your goals, overcome challenges, and create a personalized roadmap to successfully divorce.

Invest in yourself and experience unparalleled support and expertise.

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