Blueprint

Your Roadmap to a Smarter, Smoother Divorce

A step-by-step system designed to help you navigate divorce with clarity, confidence, and control—without unnecessary stress or expense.

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What is the Better Divorce Blueprint?

Divorce doesn’t have to be overwhelming, expensive, or full of unnecessary conflict. The Better Divorce Blueprint is a proven, guided process that empowers you to take control of your divorce journey while saving time, money, and emotional energy. Whether you're contemplating divorce, in the midst of it, or finalizing the process, this system provides you with expert knowledge, practical tools, and compassionate guidance every step of the way.

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Who is This For?

What You’ll Get Inside the Blueprint:

✅ Step-by-step guidance from an expert divorce strategist.
✅ Essential checklists, worksheets, and templates to keep you organized.
✅ Expert strategies to protect your finances and legal rights.
✅ Communication tools for navigating co-parenting and tough conversations.
✅ A supportive community to help you stay strong and focused.

Why Choose Better Divorce Blueprint?

Unlike generic legal advice or costly attorneys who prolong the process, Better Divorce Blueprint gives you actionable, easy-to-follow steps that put YOU in control. Designed by an experienced divorce coach and mediator, this system helps you avoid common mistakes, reduce conflict, and create a smoother transition into your next chapter.

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What People Are Saying:

“Paulette helped me protect my peace, my kids, and my assets.” I was drowning in a divorce filled with accusations, gaslighting, and financial warfare. Paulette didn’t just coach me—she gave me a battle plan. She helped me protect what mattered most without losing my dignity. I’m forever grateful.

Mark R.

“She turned down the heat in a high-conflict nightmare.” I was blindsided, overwhelmed, and ready to lawyer up blindly. Then I found Paulette. Her ability to de-escalate, strategize, and clarify the process helped me avoid a courtroom bloodbath. Her Better Divorce Blueprint was a godsend.

Brian S.

“I didn’t know how lost I was until she helped me see clearly.” Men aren’t always encouraged to ask for emotional support during divorce. But Paulette created a safe space where I could be honest, vulnerable, and focused. Her method is compassionate and efficient. A rare and powerful combo.

James C.

“Better Divorce Academy helped me stay out of court and out of debt.” With kids, a business, and a volatile ex, I knew litigation would destroy us. Paulette’s mediation gave us structure and sanity. We both walked away with an agreement we could live with—and my kids never had to see a courtroom.

Thomas W.

“She’s not just for women—she’s for anyone who wants a better divorce.” I hesitated at first, thinking she only worked with women. I was wrong. Paulette listened without judgment, challenged my thinking, and helped me show up as a better dad, not just a better ex.

Alex M.

“From legal panic to strategic calm.” I had no idea how badly I was being manipulated until Paulette broke it down. She translated the legal chaos into human terms and gave me a calm, smart strategy. She saved me from making emotional, costly mistakes.

Chris B.

“Her mediation style? Tough, fair, and incredibly effective.” Paulette doesn’t play favorites. She cuts through the noise and keeps everyone focused on what matters. I respected her immediately—and so did my ex. She kept things civil, on schedule, and under budget.

Dan P.

“Divorce felt like failure—Paulette helped me find purpose in it.” The shame, the guilt, the fear—it was suffocating. Paulette helped me process it all and turn the page with purpose and pride. Her Blueprint isn’t just a program—it’s a lifeline.

Ethan H.

“My lawyer said, ‘I wish all my clients worked with Paulette first.’” By the time we filed, everything was already mapped out—no surprises, no endless fees. Paulette helped us mediate a smart, clean divorce. My attorney was stunned by how efficient it was.

Justin D.

“Her podcast was the gateway—working with her changed everything.” I found The Better Divorce Podcast late one night while searching for answers. Her voice made sense when nothing else did. I reached out the next day—and never looked back. Working with Paulette changed my life.

Ryan F.

“Paulette saved my sanity—and my wallet.” Navigating divorce from a narcissist felt like surviving a hurricane in slow motion. Paulette Rigo didn’t just guide me—she armored me with tools, confidence, and clarity. Her Better Divorce Blueprint is pure gold, and her coaching? Life-saving. Skip the courtroom chaos—start here.

Jessica M.

“The podcast alone changed my life—working with her changed my future.” I binged The Better Divorce Podcast after sleepless nights and finally reached out to Paulette. Her wisdom, empathy, and direct advice broke the cycle of confusion. I’m now divorced with dignity and no regrets. Thank you, Paulette. You’re the calm in the storm.

Amanda T.

“More than a coach—she’s a lifeline.” Paulette blends fierce truth-telling with nurturing support. She helped me exit a toxic 22-year marriage with my self-worth intact. The Divorce Survival Kit gave me my first breath of hope, and her team made the next steps clear, manageable, and even empowering.

Karen B.

“She is the Divorce Whisperer.” I never believed divorce could be peaceful—until I met Paulette. Her mediation style was compassionate but firm, and she helped both of us avoid years of litigation. My ex and I actually co-parent better now, and I owe that to her guidance.

Laura D.

“From fear to freedom—with grace.” Better Divorce Academy is not just a brand—it’s a movement. Paulette walked with me through every hard moment, teaching me how to advocate for myself. Her book, workbook, and course felt like a warm hand on my back when I needed it most.

Michelle K.

“I got my life back. For real.” High-conflict divorce had me doubting everything. Paulette helped me untangle the chaos and find my power again. Her insight into legal traps, emotional abuse, and financial control is unmatched. My only regret? Not calling her sooner.

Stephanie W.

“She doesn’t sugarcoat—and that’s exactly why I trusted her.” If you’re ready to stop being the victim and start being the author of your next chapter, work with Paulette. She tells it like it is, helps you see clearly, and rebuild with intention. Her Better Divorce Blueprint should be required reading.

Heather L.

“From broken to brilliant.” When I started this journey, I was scared, broke, and broken. Paulette saw my potential before I did. Her coaching turned my pain into purpose. I’m now financially stable, emotionally healed, and empowered beyond belief.

Nicole J.

“Five stars isn’t enough.” I’ve worked with therapists, lawyers, and coaches. Paulette is in a league of her own. She’s part strategist, part healer, part tough-love best friend. She made a roadmap for women like me—and it works. 1000% recommend.

Rachel E.

“The real deal.” Paulette doesn’t just help you divorce—she helps you evolve. Her podcast, course, and personal coaching all reflect her integrity and brilliance. I left behind not just my marriage, but the version of myself that settled for less. If you're lost, start here.

Danielle S.

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Gain the wisdom you need with cutting-edge coaching services designed for those seeking results!

Think of this assessment/consultation like you are taking your marriage to the doctor. This is your chance to get my eyeballs on your situation and tell you exactly what is not functioning, know what all your options are and the best next steps to know if divorce is best for you and your family.

You will learn the 5 methods of divorce and the 4 things the court cares about and be sure all your questions are answered.

30-Minutes Preparation and Planning Assessment

  • Our unbeatable $75 preparation and planning assessment, taking just 30 minutes, will lay the foundation for your success in knowing your best options.

Up to 90 Minutes Coaching Consultation

  • Elevate your progress with our exclusive one-on-one divorce coaching and private mediation consultation, spanning 60 to 90 minutes, at only $299.

Our team of expert coaches specializes in understanding your needs and analyzing your situation.

Let’s explore your goals, overcome challenges, and create a personalized roadmap to successfully divorce.

Invest in yourself and experience unparalleled support and expertise.

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I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial  and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

I personally endured an 8.5 year fully litigated case that included a 12 day trial that took place over 9 months and after all that living hell…(please excuse my french)

there was a FOUR year state supreme appellate court process.

It cost a TON of money, years of my life tied up in court and it nearly destroyed me and my family.

the funny thing during this time I could barely help myself but time and time again other’s reached out to ME for help..

I called my attorney Marty (gutta remember I was born in Boston)

and told him what happening.

I asked him if I should go to law school…
he smiled and said you know Paulette you think like a judge act like a lawyer and feel like a therapist you owe it to give back and help people you my dear have experienced what 99% of people never will… that experience gives you the depth and the breath of the entire divorce process

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my personal experience gave me the awareness, skills and strength to help countless others facing mediation, divorce, antagonistic litigation and ever-changing family dynamics.

It drove me to do a tremendous amount of education, training, internship, mentoring and certification and create Better Divorce Academy, author the #1 best selling book, workbook, and the 8-module self-paced course: Better Divorce Blueprint and host The Better Divorce Podcast.

With my team of experts, we blend private mediation with Certified Divorce Coaching to help you stay in control, make wise decisions, and maintain your dignity.

I’m here to transform divorce and create an optimal experience for YOU.

The one I didn’t have 😟

but you can.