Why Hiring a Divorce Coach is a Game Changer

Why Hiring a Divorce Coach is a Game Changer

Feeling heard, understood and prepared for any change in life allows people undergoing divorce to manage their emotions, gain the knowledge and skills they need to make better decisions and shift their focus to the future.

There are many advantages you will benefit from working with a Divorce Coach.

A divorce coach will help keep your staff engrossed in the work you’ve hired them to accomplish while alleviating the divorce process logistics.

Many people benefit from working with a Divorce Coach. Just like athletes use for sports! They prepare you mentally, physically, emotionally, financially, psychologically and even spiritually for the road ahead, peak performance during and recovery after.

A Divorce Coach is trained to take you from confusion to conclusion.

Topics and Stages:

  • The decision to divorce – should I, or shouldn’t I? Decisions about the process of divorce
  • Questions to ask attorneys
  • How to find/create the right divorce team
  • Getting financially informed and organized
  • Getting organized for responding to being served
  • Co-parenting concerns during divorce
  • How/what to tell and answer children’s questions
  • Parental alienation and estrangement
  • Communicating with lawyer, spouse & others
  • Mitigating outside influence
  • Getting ready for settlement discussion
  • Getting ready for mediation
  • Getting prepared for court dates
  • Effectuating the settlement
  • Taking on the new roles of ex-spouse and co-parent
  • How to deal with moving
  • Being stuck -letting go – moving on
  • Developing your financial independence
  • Creating a new or improved career path
  • Learning to date again
  • Remarriage

Using this list as a catalog of entry points to initiate a conversation, your confusion and overwhelm will shift to feel supported and validated.    

In addition to the topics and stages, it is also helpful to increase your awareness of the wide range of negative emotional symptoms you might experience:

  • Fear
  • Panic
  • Stress
  • Sadness
  • Anger
  • Resentment
  • Frustration
  • Overwhelm
  • Jealousy
  • Betrayal
  • Guilt
  • Embarrassment
  • Confusion

Know How a Divorce Coach can help you.

  • Understand how to maintain a healthy and proactive connection with their ex-spouse and children.
  • Communicate with their attorneys, allowing them to focus on their business while staying on top of their legal matters.
  • Find methods to let go of the past and move forward towards a brighter future.
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I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial  and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

I personally endured an 8.5 year fully litigated case that included a 12 day trial that took place over 9 months and after all that living hell…(please excuse my french)

there was a FOUR year state supreme appellate court process.

It cost a TON of money, years of my life tied up in court and it nearly destroyed me and my family.

the funny thing during this time I could barely help myself but time and time again other’s reached out to ME for help..

I called my attorney Marty (gutta remember I was born in Boston)

and told him what happening.

I asked him if I should go to law school…
he smiled and said you know Paulette you think like a judge act like a lawyer and feel like a therapist you owe it to give back and help people you my dear have experienced what 99% of people never will… that experience gives you the depth and the breath of the entire divorce process

Full Circle

my personal experience gave me the awareness, skills and strength to help countless others facing mediation, divorce, antagonistic litigation and ever-changing family dynamics.

It drove me to do a tremendous amount of education, training, internship, mentoring and certification and create Better Divorce Academy, author the #1 best selling book, workbook, and the 8-module self-paced course: Better Divorce Blueprint and host The Better Divorce Podcast.

With my team of experts, we blend private mediation with Certified Divorce Coaching to help you stay in control, make wise decisions, and maintain your dignity.

I’m here to transform divorce and create an optimal experience for YOU.

The one I didn’t have 😟

but you can.