What Lesson Can Divorce Teach You? (even if it’s only to learn about how strong you are)

What Lesson Can Divorce Teach You? (even if it’s only to learn about how strong you are)

Divorce can be instrumental in allowing you to access that part of yourself that had the courage to dig deep, ask the right questions and change your life for the better. 

Paulette thrives on helping courageous people take five steps to their best lives through her message of joy, hope, and resiliency all while learning to navigate the divorce journey wisely. 

Paulette’s friend and mentor Anne Jolles created The Grace Trail. It’is a simple five-step process that starts with gratitude and ends with hope.  

By asking and reflecting on the five Grace Trail questions… 

Gratitude: What am I grateful for? 

Release: What do I need to release to move forward with my life? 

Acceptance: What is calling out for acceptance? 

Challenge: What is the next challenge of my own choosing? 

Embrace: What can I embrace as possible? 

You will find that you are walking off your worries and accessing hope and possibility. 

You can create your own Trail at your home, work, office, church, hospital, school, senior center, college, recovery center, park, convention center, workshop, backyard or kitchen windowsill. The wonderful thing about the Grace Trail is that it can be adapted to meet the needs and objectives of any group. It can be as big or small as it needs to be. As a result, Grace Trails are showing up in the most amazing ways.  

By asking and reflecting on key questions about the five components of GRACE – Gratitude, Release, Acceptance, Challenge, and Embrace – you will find that you are walking off your worries and accessing hope.  A good question can be the beginning of a great adventure. All you have to do is just show up and start walking.

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I won the lottery in divorce.

I am the .001%

97% of divorce does not go to trial  and of the 3% that do go to trial only 1% of that 3% goes to the appellate court!

Well, that was ME.

I personally endured an 8.5 year fully litigated case that included a 12 day trial that took place over 9 months and after all that living hell…(please excuse my french)

there was a FOUR year state supreme appellate court process.

It cost a TON of money, years of my life tied up in court and it nearly destroyed me and my family.

the funny thing during this time I could barely help myself but time and time again other’s reached out to ME for help..

I called my attorney Marty (gutta remember I was born in Boston)

and told him what happening.

I asked him if I should go to law school…
he smiled and said you know Paulette you think like a judge act like a lawyer and feel like a therapist you owe it to give back and help people you my dear have experienced what 99% of people never will… that experience gives you the depth and the breath of the entire divorce process

Full Circle

my personal experience gave me the awareness, skills and strength to help countless others facing mediation, divorce, antagonistic litigation and ever-changing family dynamics.

It drove me to do a tremendous amount of education, training, internship, mentoring and certification and create Better Divorce Academy, author the #1 best selling book, workbook, and the 8-module self-paced course: Better Divorce Blueprint and host The Better Divorce Podcast.

With my team of experts, we blend private mediation with Certified Divorce Coaching to help you stay in control, make wise decisions, and maintain your dignity.

I’m here to transform divorce and create an optimal experience for YOU.

The one I didn’t have 😟

but you can.